Taking apart fear and making it into just questions and facts and knowledge to then not be afraid is the whole point. Fear is a natural part of our bodies, we are born with fear in us just like organs. First forget about what your doing, like in swimming, kicking, forget that your are kicking, forget about anything that you do while swimming. But what if you're not afraid to swim but your afraid of not knowing all the knowledge the world has (like language). Gaining a system that you know and learned your original language with. His final concurred fear was performance, or dancing is what he uses. He put himself into a situation where he was going to watch dancers, but then was pulled in. After being humiliated by his partner, he just went into it and then broke down each dancer he could find and each way of dance he was taught, even though it was all tango dance it was taught to him in different ways of different instructors in their own way.
Yes, I didn't really get what the three topics he was fear-full of to speak of and talk about how he fought them. But then I got it, these are pretty common fears for people - water, knowledge, and performance.
So forgetting, comparing, and just throwing himself into something made the fear go away. Cause what is really the worst thing that could happen?
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